What if you started making manageable lists like some of us do in Piecing - goals for doing DH's LLs, and how you fulfilled each one... It seems unmanageable to find time to do all these things, until you write them down and realize that doing at least 1 of each LL a day isn't all that difficult to manage on a daily basis.
What if you focused on filling DH's love tank, instead of focusing on his filling yours, and letting him step up to the plate on his own time? I am learning the hard way that when I am not feeling fulfilled, it is usually because I have stopped fulfilling S. because I am too busy whining!
It's so hard to trust after they come back - believe me, I know. I struggle with trusting on an hourly basis, and usually find myself in some pretty ridiculous situations based on my assumptions. But allow DH to show you - you have to give him room to in order for him to do that.
