My husband still isn't "in love" with me, but moved home because separation didn't really do for him what he thought it would (give him time away from me to think and figure out why he was so unhappy). He still doesn't feel "connected" to me, but feels that our relationship is going well because we're taking time to do things together and time to do things for ourselves.
We plan to continue this, continue doing dialogue questions from retrouvaille, and stay active in the retrouvaille program. For now, he's not too interested in going back to counseling. I'm not sure how I feel about it. On one hand, it didn't really help us too much. On the other hand, I don't want to drift along like this forever.
