Good day KK ... OK, it the middle of the night now, but by the time you read this...
I'm feverishly trying to keep up with all my bb pals here .... I know same ole story ... but I just came across your post over on Bets thread about seeing now how your Hubby has made the decision that he's not going anywhere ... it brought back how when you first expressed thoses fears, I tried to use the imagery of building a house ... and at the time ... how while trying to clear the land the vision of how the house is gonna look may not be necessarily be clear, but that doesn't stop you and him from moving forward with those first steps ... remember?
Well kitti, I'd say from that "uh huh" moment you described on Bets thread, you're now standing thru the open double french doors onto that second floor balcony of that new house you have built metaphorically ... overlooking the marvelously landscaped grounds and gardens. Birds singing in the rising sun of the dawn of a new day with deep blue skies and out at the world beyond ... and knowing ... life is good ... and there by your side looking out with you is Hubby.
Bob Vila ... eat your heart out ... kewl kitti has got you topped hands down!!
Anyway ... that's the picture that popped into my head when I read your post. To repeat that familar commercial slogan ...
... but I just came across your post over on Bets thread about seeing now how your Hubby has made the decision that he's not going anywhere ... it brought back how when you first expressed thoses fears, I tried to use the imagery of building a house ... and at the time ... how while trying to clear the land the vision of how the house is gonna look may not be necessarily be clear, but that doesn't stop you and him from moving forward with those first steps ... remember? 
