creed,

The only thing I can think to say is. Starting right now. Db your A** off. Show W that you can change but change for you. Show W haw much better life is without OM. And that just because friends will miss her life is better without the complacitons of OM.

Do all this with out saying words. It seems when you try to tell someone these things the blame game starts. Rembemer it is the little baby steps that have the biggeest impact. Think of a pond and a pepple's rings that start small and get bigger.

Keep up the postive moving vibe.

kat