Creed2642, The hardest thing to do is walk away from an OM. I hope for your sake you can make the next two weeks and start over, it will be hard but you can make it. I can't tell you what will happen in the next two weeks, but it won't be easy OM is going to hold on. I've been in this situation for the last four months, everytime OW leaves my H he comes back to me. Unfortunatly I think the last time was the last for me, I can't take the heartache any longer. I hope you can hang in...my only advice be patient and understanding. Take Care, stacieB