Uh...Okay, get this! After telling me it was over and leaving last night W came back home at 9:30 this morning. She was supposed to be at work. She looked about as crappy as a person could look, she had obviously been crying and had slept very little. I asked her if she was home to get her stuff, she said no, she was home for good. I was on the phone with her mom, and and just started to tell her about the previous night and let MIL go. I started to walk over to her to help her get her stuff inside and she fell into my arms, sobbing, saying she loved me. I was quite blown away since W had basically told me less than 12 hours before that she didn't love me and never would. I took her in, sat her down, and talked with her. She said that she had called OM and told him it was over. She didn't want to talk to him, see him, or have him park his car near where she parked. I was blown away. I told her I was here for her and she kissed and hugged and held me. I got more affection today than I have had in 4 weeks. She cried nearly non-stop for 3 hours. I decided I had to get her out of the house to try to calm her down. We had promissed S that we would go to Shrek 2 (Great family film btw, adults loved it too). We stopped at McDonalds and she didn't come in, she sat out in the car and cried. Son and I ran into a friend at McDonalds, who sort of knew the situation, and I asked her to watch S. I went out and she told me the story. She had called OM to tell him that she was leaving me. She wanted him to leave his wife for her. He had told her before that he would do it in a second, but the SOB backed out on her. He told her he could tell she still loved me and that she needed to work on her marriage. He had told her that he would punch out early, stop calling, and avoid her completely. She said she was so pissed at him. I was a little angry because I seem to be the back-up plan. I still am not sure how to react to this. So far I have been very supportive and have talked about my personal fears of this situation, such as she is just trying to use play me for a fool. I don't think she is. She has said several times that she is trying for real this time, because she does love me and wants to make it work. She is going to put in her two week notice tomorrow, and we are probably going to move back to the farm with her family to try to make it work. This is so wierd. I even said "I told you so" and she didn't get that mad. I have held her while she cries to near sleep, of course she is exhausted from lack of sleep. How freeking wierd this is! What do I do? Do I keep DB? Or console her and get her out of her heartache? This is so unexpected and odd! What a reversal I was planning on divorce papers being drafted up and a custody hearing, and now she is back in my life. Where do I go from here?
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I love her, but how do I help her get over this? She says she wants to make us work now. Odd how it took him shooting her down to move in that direction. HELP!!!
