And maybe it is time to revisit what kinds of things get her going--have you ever asked her, and has she been able to give you a satisfying answer?
I did ask her the other night if there was anything I could do other than "ask to ML" and that at some point, I want to actually seduce her. She couldn't think of anything. I'm always asking if there's something I can do differently and she keeps telling me that my "involvement in the family is all she needs". What? Is that all she needs to say "yes" and "do" me? I want to know what it is I can do to really get her excited but she's never answered that. Maybe I should keep having the boring unidirectional sex and keep asking her what I can do to get her excited. I'll sound like a broken record but she will eventually have to answer. "What could I do to seduce you?" I'll add this to the list of questions.
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright