You guys all have the option of having your wives choose whether they're willing to "do"you even if they're not in the mood. How would this translate to the LDH situation? I can't imagine my H doing me and not getting in the mood. It seems like if I asked him to do me it would be the equivalent of initiating sex. Do you think I should try? "Honey, I know you're not in the mood right now, but I am really in need of your services. Report to the bedroom in 5 minutes with clean hands and tongue at the ready, hard-on optional" It would be amusing as hell if nothing else.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
