Quote: If she is going to "do" me, then I need to be able to give her "feedback" that it's spectacular and great and last night I couldn't physically do it...I tried to get my raging beast going but it wouldn't reach it's full potential.
Sounds to me like you were disconnecting and trying to "work yourself up" instead of trying to connect with your W and go from there... follow the connection. Looking into her eyes while she's "doing" you would be a very vulnerable thing to do, but it might get things flowing better...
