Quote: I told her that I was having lots of trouble with just the "physical sensation" and no "connection" and that I had to look into her eyes and get her into my head to be aroused. During this exchange, she said something interesting. She said "I've never know you to be self-conscious". I'm not sure what that meant.
I think she just wasn't in a head-space where she could "do" you. Maybe it would be good for the two of you to practice "doing" each other. This, of course, requires the EC, as you well know...
