Dave, I had a couple perhaps not too useful thoughts regarding your description of your evening. First as a HD woman who almost always falls asleep before her H in the evening, I have to say I don't think you can necessarily count that as rejection. I would love it in that situation if my H would wake me up and make his move. I'm just like an ADD toddler I guess. I go all day and then just fall over at night. I guess you would be the best judge of whether this is the case with your W.
Quote: which sort of knocked her out of the running for an O
This is the kind of thing I just don't get. Why does she give up so easily? If that happened to me, I'd just say "ouch" and get my H going again or if he was already done, I'd have him finish me off or I'd finish myself off with some passive participation from him.
P.S. Do you like my new signature? I was thinking about your "Why would you want to ML?" question while I was watching classics videos the other day. LOLOL
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
