I just got the Amazon notice that my Lou Paget books shipped. I'm concerned because my W is slowly making her way through PM and might be overwhelmed if I unveil another book.

I guess I'm wondering if she should get through PM before I unveil these? OR should we just keep them in the nightstand until we have a session? Maybe I was too hasty with this purchase. OR, maybe I should read mine and apply some techniques and see how she responds. She recently responded favorably and verbally acknowledged a new manual technique I invented. If she asks about another new technique, then I can give up the big secret.

Couple ways to spin this....

Option 1 - During foreplay
W:"Whoa...where did you learn that new trick?"
M:"Why gee dear, I learned in this handy-dandy book from Lou Paget"
W:"Hmmm interesting"
M: "Yes. I'm not sure what I was thinking but I also got the companion to it for you and I must admit that I looked in it and liked some of the things it showed."

Option 2 - During the Monday Night PM meeting
M: "BTW, I'm so proud of you for reading PM and participating in this with me"
W: "Well of course I would....I love you"
M: "Then you won't mind reading this too....it shows you the right way to yank my wankie"
W: "Freak"

Just kidding folks. It's friday. Actually, the presentation of these is going to need to probably happen in the midst of close intimacy or a session.

W: "I'm trying to hug you til relaxed but there's something hard in your pants"
M: "Why, that hard thing is a couple books by Lou Paget.

Oh man...I should go back to bed.

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