Also, I've recently mentioned that she had a sleepless night due to some "thoughts" that she wouldn't share with me. I have a theory that she might be finally recognizing some of these things on "her side" (which I shouldn't be worried about...typical disclaimer..blah blah). I asked her a few nights ago if Schnarch has mentioned the "equally differentiated" thing and she didn't know what I was talking about. I told her that the big punch-line to "differentiation" is that "couples are *always* equally differentiated". Maybe this has been cooking her noodle and providing a catalyst to introspect.
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-Steven Wright
