Quote: Hi Sea Hogs Wife, Thanks for your thoughts but they were a little off, in my case. I am the HD wife married to a man who does not like to be sexually aggressive. I have to be very careful about when and where I touch him. However, he still says that he wants me to initiate. Which basically means that he wants me to read his mind and know, instinctively, when he is horny and then make the first move. I was trying to think of subtle ways to make the first move while not freaking him out...
Honeypot
my wife is a cross between seahag, the character in popeye cartoons... old, bitching, shrill screeching voice, and a messy 4 legged farm animal called a hog... thus a new word was created...seahog
I am her spouse, thus married2seahog
Now back to the subject... it's hard for me to believe your husband does not enjoy being the sexual aggressor, unless this has met with bad results in the past, such as frequent rejection on your part, or lack of performance on his part, or perhaps he feels his performance is lacking.
