To answer your question how I would like my W to initiate, I will put it into a very reasonable context of a typical night.
Scenario 1. W sitting on the sofa watching TV with me nearby. She teases and flirts by twirling her hair, fidgeting, licking her lips subtly etc. but stops when I start to really notice. She playfully repeats this for a few minutes but finally, she turns off the tv, gives me a coy smile and invites me next to her where she grabs my hair pulls my ear (which is of course attached to my head) next to her mouth and says "take me upstairs".
Scenario 2. I give her a big hug and she doesn't let go. I then give her a kiss and she reciprocates and turns up the passion in it. Then a slight grope and then takes my hand and says "come on..." and leads me up to the bedroom.
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