Hi Sea Hogs Wife, Thanks for your thoughts but they were a little off, in my case. I am the HD wife married to a man who does not like to be sexually aggressive. I have to be very careful about when and where I touch him. However, he still says that he wants me to initiate. Which basically means that he wants me to read his mind and know, instinctively, when he is horny and then make the first move. I was trying to think of subtle ways to make the first move while not freaking him out.
Thanks anyway for your thoughts. Oh and on the heater, he would never do that. We have a small ceramic heater but he would consider that action to be "too much effort" for such a little payoff. He DOES warm it up in his hands but I still freeze, unless it is the dead of summer. I am (usually) a thin person and feel cold all the time, like an old lady. lol
