My hormones were all out of whack after either being pregnant or nursing for about 7 years, I was always too tired for anything but sleep. Now, I'm done nursing, I've started exercizing, lifting weights, stamina has increased, desire increased, feeling sexy again (which I had not for a long long long time). Now he's the problem. I have felt what it's like to have the shoe on the other foot, and do not like it, but I feel like it's Karma or something. Increasing my understanding of what I've put him through.
Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.