I didn't mean it was easy for men to initiate, just that men in our culture are taught that it is up to them. I remember being embarrassed once because my elderly neighbor asked me "Why are you mowing the lawn? Why don't you get that husband of yours to do it?" It's like that but 100 times worse .
Quote: men initiate easily with those they perceive as receptive to their advances ("bad girls") but not with those who make them SDHDs (Shot Down HDs), whether in reality or just in their minds.
It seems to me if this is true, then men have an odd way of deciding whether a woman is "bad" or "good". For instance, having large breasts has little to do with a woman's sex drive or moral restraint.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
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