Wow, honey...in your reference to the candle, were you referring back to my recap of our recent encounter? She actually did light the candle. As a matter of fact, she initiated (in a lame-o way) by bringing the topic up in the first place. Last Sat, I didn't bring up the topic of a LM session once though the circumstances (D5 at a sleepover) made it obvious that I would. She started the convo with "I'm sure you want to have some 'bedtime' tonight....". She basically pushed it to me. This is something that might be interesting to work on in the future because I would really like her to "try" sometime to initiate like a mature adult.

Thanks HP for showing my to pay more attention to the "little" things.

Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright