Quote: I told her how I would like to have all times be like that and she got a little bit confused thinking that I was imposing a "high standard" or injecting "pressure" due to a goal.
Dave, that's almost EXACTLY what my W said during our "failed" session Sunday night... unfortunately I wasn't able to handle it as well as you did. I lost my ability to self-soothe and HOM...
Quote: I think she *knows* that this process is not just about "increasing frequency" but isn't exactly on board with it yet.
Again, same here, but W has some misunderstandings about what I'm expecting that are getting in the way at the moment. Also, I think I'm not as far along with differentiation as I'd hoped I was, because she STILL has too much control over my feelings...
