Hi Dave... I am new here and find it encouraging how you and wife are " on the same page" so to speak.
My last nite's drama:
Hubby: (comes over to me in bed)..."What are you reading?"
Me: Shows him PM book
Hubby: "Looks boring"
Me: Stays calm, does not get upset, smiles and continues to read

Journey... who has decided to move from lurker status