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Hi Deb,

It is sort of exciting thinking I will have my very own home.

When David moved out for awhile this one felt like mine.

Now I don't feel I belong in it knowing it is going to sell.

The second one is too expensive but she is planning to come up with more for us to look at Thursday evening.

I never would have figured I would ever be living in town.

But I am just leery of getting to far out on my own.


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Pam,

Paint does wonders! You coud paint the ceiling paneling and the walls.

I've even painted over wallpaper a few times. New paint makes everything look so fresh!


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Pam, That first house looks like it has lots o decorating possibilities. I's paint the ceiling white/like,and paint the paneling a light color. Keep the wood around the china cabinet wood.


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Well, the first house is possible doable if they are planning to drop the price of it.

I might could stretch and do that but I promised myself I wanted to not spend all of my income on a house payment because I want to be able to do some other stuff in my life.

I like the trees around. I hope I can get one with some trees. That was one of the things I love about the house I am in, the driveway is lined on one side with Norway spruce.

In the winter I have a Christmas card outside when it snows.

It is beautiful!


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Ok, I am very, very scattered.

Do I try to forget there ever was a David and just focus on getting out of this house as fast as I can?

Do I e-mail him and ask if he will buy me out that it is depressing living here knowing the house is going to be sold?

I guess at the moment I feel at a loss for a direction.


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Pam,

I know hon, how you feel! You can always take a spin by the house, no law against it!

Don't settle for just anything, I think I said that earlier, LOL!

Deb


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Thank you Deb.


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Sigh......I HATE PMS!

I think I will try to get some work done this evening, maybe I will feel better.


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Pam, get some work done!!!! You'll feel better.


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Hi Pam - Hope the PMS is gone - funny how our cycles are synced Wishing you an uplifting Tuesday. Slowly


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