Trying to come up with an answer on this and in a way Yes, I am trying to be controlling because I really do not want J in the house while I am still living there.
So that is controlling who he can invite into his own house.
I am really not sure how to handle this at all.
Today I am probably not going to figure anything out as it is my first day back to work and I am not feeling well today.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"