Folks, I need help. How does one create a 'safe' home environment to draw WAH back, but at the same time not be set up to be taken for granted? We talk about mystery, but does this not contradict the safe notion?
NiceGuy is still trying to fix OW's problems with her H, not sure to what extent they are communicating directly, but OW's sister called me yesterday puzzled by NG's insistence that she get involved with OW's kids...
To be honest, I'm at a bit of a loss here... Your input would be most welcome. Thanks. Slowly
