Just cross posting from Deb's thread

Hi Deb, and TC - Just wanted to pick up on something that resonated with me
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For Me, the hardest thing to get a "balance on" was the fact that I needed to continue to be positive/very affirming to my H, but still show him that I could indeed survive without him.



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I still struggle with this, partially because I'm afraid that if I'm not with H during his free time, he will hook up with OW again

But mainly it is the balance thing. How does one create a 'safe' relationship and still maintain mystery? Slowly


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