How did Slowly do in May? Here are the goals from the 2nd of May.
Quote: 1. I will continue my voyage of spiritual exploration and growth. This has centered me, and boosted personal strength It was Buddha's enlightenment anniversary on Tuesday, lots of awareness all round. Been reading up as a shock absorber. This works well enough. NG has started reading some of the same stuff, and we often chat about what we took away from the various sources 2. Enjoy family and friends connection - it takes time and effort every day to make a little connection, but the rewards are immense. Discovering depths to folks I have not touched in a long time. Gifts all around me that I've not appreciated in the past. Continue to support folks on this BB when I can contribute positively This has been such a gift. Downside, we are rushed off our feet. But the joy everyone has brought us is incredible 3. Allow H space to deal with his issues. We now have R (and A, OW) talks about once a week, and H seems to value my input. S L O W L Y getting our R back to what it should be, then improving it Yes, of course I could be validating more, but hey, there is only so much I can do. Been a good girl, as hard as it has been at times 4. Keep on filling H's tank. With hindsight, I've been careless about this (as has he). I will keep in mind his LLs and work on these consciously first, then as a habit. Yup, I'm getting better at this all the time 5. Take good care of my health. Long overdue visit to the dentist, and ugh, need to fix bags under my eyes Must get back to a more settled sleep pattern Hmmm. I have failed on this. Still not sleeping well, still not been to the dentist, my nails are a mess. What am I doing? 6. Keep an eye on our financial stability. Still no progress on selling the flat, sigh Still a problem, but I'm letting NG worry about this - he really is good at solving problems 7. Spring clean and shift unwanted usables to Oxfam Done - yeah. 8. Start putting some structure around charitable works. Contact some agencies and inquire about volunteer work Failed.
