Hey there Slowly,

Wanted to stop by and express my appreciation for your very solid support.

Hmmm - he doesn't know why he would have an A when he loves you utterly. I also find it very interesting that you are getting support from OW's sister. Wow - that's one for the books.

And good that you are seeing that he needs to feel valued and uplifted and worthy. It's hard for any partner having one person who is doing better than the other. No matter how secure your R is - when this happens it's hard. Gotta be hard on anyone. Good of you to notice and find other ways to build him up.

Thanks from across the pond,
Totally