Slowly,
Since I love reading success stories, I am re-reading your whole story. Wow, I didn't realize I had missed so much. You have come so far.

I haven't finished reading it yet, but did you and H ever separate or D? I have read so many stories, they start to run together after a while.

Thanks for stopping by my thread. I spend more time now trying to give advice since there's not much advice for me right now. Being dark doesn't give you much to talk about. I have at least until July 1st to stay dark and maybe longer. This is the hardest part I think.

Some may say being in limbo may be harder, but I wouldn't know. 95% of my DBing since W left has been dark. It is her choice.

I am so happy your sitch is getting better. i long for the day when you can tell us it's 100% complete although I think we still have to DB from now on.


Randy Learning to Live II