Before I forget, a timely note that with dbing, we need to take every opportunity. Here is something HOn posted on KAW's thread, which was just an incredible reminder. It is also about not just what is SAID, but what our Ss DO.
Why? Why do we do this so often... we have these internal dialogues "well, I know she wants sex, but she won't ask me for it, so, why should I give it to her?? She doesn't give it to me when I want it..." blah, blah, blah
FILL UP HER LOVE TANK at any opportunity. It's not like you didn't want to... you WAITED until she was asleep... I mean, please... Can I be ugly, blunt? What would OG have done?
Be the OG ... I know how you feel, believe me... but be the OG... jump her bones, especially when she is SIGNALLING you. You just gave her another sign that you are "drifting apart." In her mind, it was another signal... no longer even understands when I want sex... And then you controlled the situation by having sex later.
Sweetie, she's sleeping nude with you. Make her feel loved at any opportunity. I'm glad you all had fun anyway. But take advantage of any and all opportunities!!
