Hi Tal - Just what I was looking for, practical tips
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I'm one of the few on this board who advocates snooping. My motto was "trust, but verify" although I know that for some it becomes near obsession. I found that I needed to check every so often to make sure actions were matching words. It did, so I eventually got to the point where it doesn't occur to me to snoop but every once in awhile.

But I'm not sure keeping in touch with this loose cannon is my preference. I have other more reliable sources

I agree though that the next time NG brings this up, I'll ask him what he is willing to do to change the sitch. It is an annoyance more than anything else. And if it makes it easier for NG to get fed up and really let go, I guess I can put up with it Slowly

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