Wow, a long weekend full of R&R. You and NG are going to enjoy it, and we all know you deserve it!
It is strange that Ow's H called you to talk to NG and then you. Boy he really does need to read DR. We all have been in a similar sitch but we got the help we needed to learn this was not the right path to take. It was great for you to tell Ow's H that by him calling NG it (can or does) reopen the lines between them two. I bet he never thought of it that way before. Smart move on your part.
I, myself, am trying to figure out how to have Xh open up to me and share all of his feelings with me. I am at a standstill on this one. If you get some advise or a trick on this I would love to know.
I think you are doing great, keep up the good work, and dont let the bumps in the road discourage you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.