Slowly....thanks so much for visiting my post and offering words of encouragement. This "dating" thing is different...treading lightly, being MYSELF, upbeat, friendly, etc.
Quote: I'm Starting With The Man In The Mirror I'm Asking Him To Change His Ways And No Message Could Have Been Any Clearer If You Wanna Make The World A Better Place Take A Look At Yourself, And Then Make A Change
This is a great reminder....just hum the last verse over and over.
When it comes to difficult thoughts about the OW....especially when our H's seem to back off slightly....that's sooooo easy to do. One friend suggested taking that neg. thought....writing it down with all the associated fears, etc. and then burning that piece of paper. The visual helps me realize all my ASSuming is often my worst enemy. Part of the fear and betrayal of being the LBS I guess.
Then we just look in the mirror and remember....WE are responsible for our own happiness and peace.
Seems like you and NG are on a real positive roll, tho. Your able to talk about your R and some fears from time to time....honestly and without defensiveness. That's HUGE!
Keep on DBing....are are doing a fabulous job and keeping me tracked in a forward direction.
