Kelli and In4Ride may be able to give you a good advice how to approach your H. As a man I will be very happy if my W make a move on me. But I am the one who still want our M. I am not sure how your H thinks. WAS probably thinks similar. So my W does not want to show anything intimate to me, not even caring gesture. It makes me easier to let my W go, when it is time to make decision.
