Wishing, after being gone for a while, I felt compelled to check on you. My heart aches for you. But, you are showing your characteristic strength and resolve. Hang in there. The important thing is you, and your kids. Take care of you, and the rest will follow.
As for the lawyer, the same applies. Take care of you. It is not your R, it is business.
You said it yourself
Quote: H is on his own journey now and I am just watching from the sidelines.
. Let him go to take his own journey. If it does not return your direction, it will be okay. If it does, it will be okay. We have both watched this happen since we were drawn to this board.
My advice is to take it one step at a time, no expectations, no plans, and put yourself first. I will be praying for you.
And, remember, he moves very slowly, and is going through a phase that has happened before. My H went to the point of renting a place, and also told our S before telling me.
