Don't worry about H leaving until he's walking out the door. Just act as if you're happy with the time together. My H evicted our tenant, spent months fixing up his apt, etc. so he could move out, and he never left. It was very difficult to spend so long a time dreading it but I just kept acting as if I understood and I was OK. I kept reminding myself that each day was a another chance to DB. Eventually H told me he was going to spend the week at apt because it was closer to a job (yea right) and he came home for dinner the second night and came home for good the third night.
We have never discussed why he didn't move out. I never mentioned that it was odd that he didn't. I never asked when he was leaving or what he was doing or thinking. I avoided anything that required him to make a decision or provide a specific answer. I think this allowed him the time to relax and not feel pressured to jump one way or the other.
So don't stress too much about what H says - well, don't show the stress. I know it feels like a stab to the heart. Already you can see how much more comfortable he is - flirting, wow! The more certain he is that he won't be called upon to provide answers or R talk, the more he will seek out your company.
