Just wanted to stop in and say i'm sorry your feeling so frustrated... but from what I understand of DBing... letting go of epectations will set you free. assume that H will not be home that way you will not have to be upset when he doesnt get there... only a suggestion and sooo much easier said then done. I know that my H hates feeling like he has to check in, I know it is respectful to do so, but for me it is control.. I want him in a specific place at a specific time... It is something I have had to let go for my own peace... Sometimes when we act as though something doesnt bother us, we get more respect!! backwards I know.. and i'm really just a newbie, you have been Dbing a lot longer.. i just wanted to offer up some support for all that your going through, just try to find some ways to reduce stress for yourself... Hugs.
