Hi Wishing,

I can feel your frustration. I experienced exactly the same situation with my W.

It is good that you have told your H about what you need from him. Life is hard if your partner does not want to show commitment to improve your R.

In the last few days, my W is still grieving about her lost. My C told me to be patient. The C believes that their R is over. This time my W was given the freedom to go. She had to discuss her future with the om and talked about reality of a life together. They concluded that it is not going to work. So she realises on her own that there will be no life with the om afterall. She told me that she is going to business trip on Mon for few days. I asked whether she is going with the om. She said she is going alone. No anger this time. My C told me that she needs me to show her love now as she wants to be accepted but too ashamed to ask. This morning I hugged and kissed her on the cheek when she went to work. She did not show any rejection like last year. May be it is a new beginning? I can only go slowly.

Raindeer