In4ride....I think that we are about in the same boat as far as where our sitch's are at, or at least some of the same thinking patterns. I am with you on the walking out of the room, not taking the blame for whatever is ailing H, and enjoying myself even if H is a grump.
I had a call on Father's Day from D23 and it is still bothering me. For starters, she called to talk to me and would not talk to H so I didn't tell H she had called. I made a comment that H had made about buying a canoe next summer if we were still here. D23 wanted to know if that meant one of may not be here.
Since no one knows exactly what is wrong with our M, D was taking a guess that it is something serious. She then went on to ask why I didn't fix what was wrong, that she knows I am not happy in this M. I told her I am working on it.
What really bothers me is that she is engaged but is not 100% happy with her relationship with her guy. I told her to not settle for anything less than wonderful, expecially since they are not married yet. She said, "Why, you have. I am just waiting to see what you are going to do about dad before I make a decision". She remembers how happy and loving H and I were up until his A started 3 years ago, she just doesn't know the reason why things aren't good now.
I just feel it puts more of a burden on me to get this show on the road....
