Quote: If I would have known what a slow, painful process this was 2 1/2 years ago, I am not sure I would have signed up for the "trying to save your M" gang. (Especially since there are no guarantees at the end.
hi wishing,
Nothing is garunteed...absolutely NOTHING! so just look at it as "nothing ventured, nothing gained".
As far as h sleeping in the other bed...why not look at it as maybe just maybe he took your getting in the other bed as you choosing to sleep seperately. (even if you don't believe it totally) Or heck realize that sometimes perfectly happy couples don't sleep in the same bed while at a motel...heck I recall several occassions while away on vacation my plopping myself to sleep in the "extra" bed in our hotel room for various reasons (sunburn, spinning head from drinking too much in younger years etc) that had NOTHING to do with h or my feelings for him.
Focus instead on all the positive things he is doing for you right now.
