I don't think your H is planning anything other than try to work on M and please you. Why bother to tell what he is going to do each day on business trip if he want a D.
I know your feeling. You have made a lot of progress. However, you have not reached where you want to be. You want to go there fast. But you make baby steps every day. You know that it is better now than 2 years ago. Be patient.
I don't have patient myself. My W still does not want to make commitment to work on our M. But I notice that she did put effort to cook good meals for me. May be "act of service" is her LL? I am still trying hard to understand what is in her mind. Last night I drop my cellphone in the familyroom downstair.I went to brush my teeth. When I came down, it was turned on (I switch off after hour). Why she bothers to check on me. Is my W afraid that I have A with someone else? Why can't she stop her EA? Too many question, no answer.
Hang on there Wishing. You are making progress in th eright direction.