Couldn't resist answering. Although I'm only 6 mos since bomb, my H is also very nice and generally considerate. But, he sleeps in separate bedroom. He doesn't shy away from accidental touches anymore, but that's about as far as the physical part goes.
In fact, strangely enough my H started being more considerate and helpful around the house immediately after bomb - guilt I presume. It's hard to know where the line is between guilt and real effort.
I don't have any real advice at the moment, just commiserating (sp?). All I can say is that it's a very slow process, but you already know that better than I.
