YOur H's attitude is very similar to my W. He may be is still emotionally attached to the ow. I am not sure whether they have stopped seeing each other.
My W is also like that. Refuse to be intimate. She did not like to go with me to the church as she does not want the part that H & W kiss each other when we greet "Peace be with you". But I know my W is going to the church alone.
In th elast 6 weeks, I did not want to force her since she suffered withdrawal symptoms from stopping HRT. She started HRT again this weekend. I will talk to her again in 1-2 week time, when the HRT works again fully. I believe my W is still emotionally attached to the om. I will have to ask her directly (calmly and without anger). She may have stopped communicating romantically. But seeing the om every day makes thing more difficult.
Hope your H will respond positively. I keep you in my prayer.
