Welcome W2H ... Well your title certainly tells where your frustrations lie. Would you give us a little more detail as to what put H on the fence and the reasons you know of as to why he is still teetering there.
Have you tried to work up to those hugs 'n kiss, by acting "as-if" ... like casually hand holding ... grab onto his arm while walking about shopping or in the parking lot to and from the car. When he does those kind & considerate things, do you respond with a kiss or a hug? Do you try to snuggle / rest your head on him while settling in for a quiet evening? If so, how does he reciprocate?
Many times its a slow process of starting out small and steadily work your way into the "bigger" stuff rather than waiting for them to one day turn it on like a light switch.
