Hi In4Ride,

If pride is an issue for your H, then inviting him back will solve the problem. However, if he feels to be controlled, you need to let him make his own decision. I don't know enough about your H to suggest one way or another.

In my W's case, she was back into our bedroom on her own. Every time after a big talk or after she reversed her decision. It is difficult to understand a WAS's mind.

Raindeer