I was told by my MC that each of us deserve to realize some of our dreams in marriage within reason. As we become more supportive and help our spouses realize their dreams, they have a tendency to want less. If we pull against them, the spouse may eventually want to get away from their dream blocker.
You have done a great job figuring this out while I had to have a MC tell me that the convertable car my W wants is less expensive than a D. (LOL) Now could I get my W to want a bycycle? It does not have a roof either. Oh well!
