Thanks your support and advice. It is enlightening. Everybody told me not to do R talk. I'll better listen. Wow, this is a big achievement not to have R talk for 6 months. I must learn how to do it.
I feel awkward to praise my W in the current situation, after she hurt me so much. But I know it may be to only way to fill her "love tank". Act of service would be easier for me. But it is my W's LL that I have to learn, not what I am comfortable with.
