I am very happy for you and also envy you that you have achieved so many positives in your R with your H.
Your plan of listing what you did to invoke positive responses is very valuable for all friends in this bb.
I still can't figure out how to push my W's positive buttons. She is good showing her poker face. I have trouble understanding her emotion. I am trying very hard to be sentitive to her needs. But I am not good at mind reading. Any good suggestions?
