Well maybe the "iceberg" is beginning to thaw? You are in a much better place than I am - and you're appreciating all the baby steps. I'm hoping some of your PMA will rub off on me. I know my H is slowly going forward again (where before he was in reverse) but I'm just not in a place that I can appreciate it. I'm happy you are and I think you should keep it up as it will help both of you in the long run.
Let us know what happened over the weekend! Inquiring minds want to know.