Thanks for your input - I'm a Betsy too, without the 'e'. You've hit the nail on the head exactly. I had a lot of resentment in the past of H going off without me instead of making my own plans. Why was I doing laundry while he was riding his Harley?
That's why I'm going to make myself go this weekend and have fun, even though I'm hesitating. Plus, my Mini (yellow with black top) needs some serious motoring time!