The only thing that keeps me from just giving up is I really do think they are in pain. They are lost and aren't sure about anything. So, they are "running in place" trying everything to make the pain go away. Well, everything except face it and deal with it "head on".
I have to agree with this.
I've just finished reading this thread. There were lots of baby steps. Great positives abound.
Have you tried writing 3 positives daily? That helps me a lot.
Also, have you kept up with speaking his love language?
Still taking some time for yourself after work each day?
Have you rearranged things in your bedroom to make it more yours?
Done anything towards being more mysterious? More like a girlfriend and less like a wife?
I know you are feeling close to giving up. As an outsider looking at your situation, I think you are doing great!
And if at this point, he does move out, I suspect he'll realize how much he misses you quite quickly.
After all, you've done an incredible job of building up positive memories for the past 7 months. Go YOU!
